What is it about the year-end that makes us face our fears and disappointments and count our hopes again like pieces of treasure in our palm? The seasons herald change as they fold into one another, but the calendar shows us we don’t cycle in place. We wheel forward — birthdays, anniversaries, “three years since” — all touchstones across memory and longing, markers of time that leave no one unaffected. The Eve is a live wire between the past and future and with the turn of the year, we cross a mental threshold.

For some of us it’s simple math, only so many grains of sand left in the hourglass. We attempt to balance the equation, weigh our dreams against the run of time. But it’s more than a race with the clock. No matter our age or station or story, the height of the new year holds out a second chance. We hope for better, of our life and of our self, because to be human means to grow. Character, strength, achievement leave us room for more, and we seize fresh opportunity. So we turn our feet toward our dreams, reset our compass to the hope of the winter sun.

Prague Astronomical Clock
Prague Astronomical Clock

189 responses to “We Dream Again”

  1. “to be human is to grow” loved it!

    1. Thx for letting me know. =)
      Happy new year.

      Diana

      1. happy new year to you and to your family! 🙂

  2. Keep moving forward. They’ll say nice things about you after you buck out, whether they are true or not. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

    1. LOL I sure as hec don’t want to go in reverse. Huh. Nice things that aren’t true, eh? You’ve been awesome. Thanks for the support and happy new year. Keep writing. =)

      Diana

  3. You really are one of the best writers here.

    1. Shoot, you rock, Adam. Thank you for the lovely support and for making yourself at home here. I hope my next post on blogging encourages you to stay the course.

      Diana

  4. Perhaps it’s all about hope – that in this new year, we’ll get it right, as an individual and as the human race. Another chance, almost like a blank slate?

    1. Right, Annette? The turn of the calendar does feel like the proverbial turn of a new leaf, doesn’t it? Even if we don’t get it just right, we gotta aim for higher ground. That’s been my song on this blog.

      Big hug for the new year.
      Diana

      1. Ah, higher ground – yes, that is the aspiration. I am certainly planning to work my goals this year 🙂

  5. Wonderful and so very true… Happy New Year!

    1. Thanks for being here. HAPPY new year. Keep dreaming.

      Diana

  6. You’re amazing girl.

    1. You’re too much. You know what? This gRoup here has made this journey amazing. Thanks for reading.

      HAPPY new year.

      ~Girl.

      LOL
      (Diana)

  7. Many people have conjectured that intellect or soul is the defining difference between man and animal. Personally, I think that hope and optimism are also distinguishing traits. I love the way you express that hope.

    1. I agree on the hope and optimism, Dave. I almost added that we’re touched by a helpless optimism, however subtle, with the chance to reset our compass. Appreciate the lovely feedback.

  8. Happy New Year Diana 🙂
    Looking forward to reading more of your writing this year.
    Best wishes,
    Takami

    1. Thanks, dear Takami. I’m thankful for the faithful support this year and certainly look fwd to more of your beautiful photography.
      Happy new year.

      D.

  9. Yes, time to dream again. Happy New Year.

    1. =) You first followed in my fledgling days. I appreciate sharing this year-end milepost with you.

      All the best in the new year, T.
      Diana

  10. Hope. Even when one is crushed, another opens its bud.

    It’s been a helluva year in 2014, but like you said Diana, something about the eve gives us courage to face our fears.

    Wishing you a beautiful 2015, Diana. You and the rest of the family in this holistic journey.

    1. I know all about hellava years, Uju – though 2014 was thankfully not among my top 5 in that regard. Think of it this way…it can only look UP from ground zero, right? Thank you for the beautiful blessing to me and everyone here.

      Sending you lots of love and my deepest hopes for a redemptive new year.

      D.

  11. Moving into a new year, hope triumphant over experience once again.

    1. Hope triumphant. Always.

  12. Cycling forward to dreams of beauty and love rooted in action. 🙂 Happy New Year.

    1. Exactly. I wanted to keep this one short, and didn’t get into “dreams without a goal or plan is a no no….” Ha ha ha. ACTION! Says the Korean Godmother.

      HAPPY new year, my dear friend.
      D.

    2. After replying and unplugging, I wondered: “Was that really HOPE I heard in his voice??”

      =)

      1. Thanks my intuitive grandmother! Yes, there are glimmers of hope, building as I dream of a better year, rooted in the realization that I will have to work (act) for it. XD

        Happy New Year my friend!

      2. GODmother. GODmother. Not GRANDmother!! Ayeyaya….

      3. LOL, I knew that would create a response! 🙂
        OK, my dear, loving Korean Godmother.

      4. “Godmother” can go both ways. Either the dear, loving one.

        Or the Mafia.

        Will leave you to pick. LOL.

      5. I’ll take the first please, though sometimes I need a kick in the rear!

      6. Was a tough choice, I know. Let’s see.. the lady w/ the wand or the one with the .45. LOL Fairy Godmothers look out for their own…but then again, I hear from the Godfather his wife does the same for her posse.

        (I’m just so glad you sound roused to ACTION!)

        Triple-like your first comment on this thread.

      7. Thanks GM! 🙂

  13. “we turn our feet toward our dreams.” What a good thought to start the new year. A very happy and productive turning of the feet for you in 2015.

    1. You’re always blessing everyone, Ian. Thank you for turning that line back on me in love. Same to you and your beautiful family.

      All the best,
      D.

  14. “We wheel forward” – This is well said. Wishing you, dear Diana, and yours a very Happy and Peaceful New Year! 🙂

    1. Thanks for taking a moment, Aunty. I greatly appreciate the faithful reading. My deepest wish for all that is bright and good in your new year.

      Diana

      1. Thank you, dear Diana, thank you very much! 🙂

  15. You are so good with the smooth inspirational words. Well done for a look at what is to come in hopes, dreams, and the good and the bad.

    1. And you’re so good with the encouragement, Y. Yes, it’s not naive hope against challenges, but as I said, of growth and progress.

      Xxx
      D.

  16. Got it rather late but still it’s relevant. This was a well thought out piece. I like how you love words. Shake it off and have big fun this year. 😀

    1. =) That’s neat that you like how I love my words. Actually, I’ve been eyeing a chance to video myself shaking it (to my son’s drumming)!

      Happy new year, and thank you for being here.

      Diana

      1. Ha ha ha! I’d love to see that Diana 😀

      2. LOL. I wasn’t joking. So we’ll sEE….

        Ha ha ha.

      3. LOL…. Got to borrow Big Eye and arm myself with 3D glasses and sit back 😀

      4. LOL! I’ve been planning to for months. Not sure when it’ll happen. ^ ^

      5. Seems like if it gets on YouTube, it’s gonna attract a million views on the first day 😀

      6. NOT. With the bar so high, it’s doomed to be a dud.

      7. I bet you on that 🙂

      8. Ha ha what would you bet?

  17. Beautifully written. “the new year holds out a second chance”. Love the way you see it. We can certainly leave behind the year that was but it doesn’t hurt to take the lessons that we’ve learnt in the last few years into unknown…no one is perfect, and we’ll all make mistakes. Funnily enough, we still feel that the “perfect us” can be achieved 🙂 Happy New Year, D. Wishing you and your family well.

    1. If we change nothing of our routine, everything will remain the same! But the skies seem to declare a newness, that it’s time to rethink and redo.

      Here’s to another great year blogging for us both, M.

      D.

  18. Happy New Year Diana!

    1. Thanks. You too, Deb. My deepest wishes for all that is fulfilling in your new year.

      Xxx
      D.

  19. It’s funny because often when a milestone is reached ( a certain weight level is reached, a work goal accomplished, a test score achieved, etc…) there is a let down period and a lot of “well now what?” thinking. When the calendar flips over to a New Year though, it’s different, with thoughts of renewal and hope energizing the spirit. Great post you made in expressing this. Happy New Year!

    1. Right, Tricia? There’s something about that turn of the year’s calendar. It’s human nature to strive but also not to be easily satisfied – which is why we often continue to hunger. For more. But there is a sweetness to the promises this time of year. Thanks for taking the time, and happy new year. =)

      Diana

  20. So well said and worthy of a second reading … out loud. It’s been a pleasure following your blog. Your posts dance between biting wit and sincere sentiment, artfully worded. Grace and peace to you and yours this year!

    Vanessa
    By grace alone…

    1. Ha ha ha. Must say I quite like the dance between the bite and sincere. Can’t be lulling everyone to sleep, now can I? Gotta mix it up. I sure appreciate the support, Vanessa.

      Happy new year.

      SOLA gratia.
      Diana

  21. Yes, leaving the old year behind to embrace the new year is therapeutic! May the anticipation and the excitement of the new year last us all year long!

    1. It IS good for the spirit, I think because it is the call of nature under God’s orchestration.
      Blessings to you, my friend. Thank you so much for the faithful read.

      Love,
      Diana

  22. Your writing is mesmerizing, striking at the heart of what it is to be human. I savor every post and can’t wait to read more in the new year.

    1. Goodness, happy new year to me! WhAT do I do with feedback like this? Thank you so much for the good word and the investment of your time. I can only hope for good returns. Happy new year. Diana

  23. I was just thinking this morning how arbitrary dates are. I started the thought: “This is the year I’m finally going to….” and then I stopped myself because I don’t like cliches, and big changes build up gradually anyway, so even if this is “the year I finally…,” that process started many years ago.

    I hope the next (arbitrarily set) 365 squares on the calendar bring you lots of joy and success, Diana.

    1. “that process started many years ago.” LOve it. But markers help. The turn of the calendar provides the impetus we all could use and opens up opportunity.

      Wish you the same, my friend. Keep up the beautiful writing.

      Diana

  24. To quote Dumbledore in Harry Potter “Words are our most potent form of magic” (ish, may not be word for word!) & yours are!

    1. *chuckle* Thanks for the props, Carl. All the best this year,

      Diana

  25. Well said. Because of a recession in the late 70’s right after we had started a new business, we went through seven seriously challenging years with five children. Each New year’s Eve we would sit and console each other with the thought that surely the next year had to be better. The seventh year we just said, “Well, it may not be better. But we are stronger.” Of course, that was the year things got better. 🙂 I suspect because we had grown.

    1. Seriously love this vignette, Eileen.

      “Well, it may not be better. But we are stronger.” Right. I wasn’t painting roses. I try not to on this blog. The capacity we reach into well may be (and ought to be) in our own spirit more than in any outward achievement. Thank you so much for the light and wisdom, as always. Thank you for the faithful read.

      God bless you.
      Diana

  26. Loved this piece and the imagery of a communal experience with time. Happy New Year! May this be your most creative year yet….

    1. I so appreciate the feedback. Ha ha ha I thought of posting sometime how 2014 was such an amazing year blogging, I’m tempted to fear it’s downhill from here. LOL! THANK you for the blessing – and the faithful read.

      May hope and love light your way this year.
      Diana

      1. Outside of death, nothing can stop our creative genius than our own stories about it’s limited existence. You, my friend, are so full of creative magic 2015 won’t know what to do with you.

      2. I am transferring this gem of a comment over to a special list of V.I.P. comments I plan to show my son when he’s grown. Hard to pick these out bc I have to say the input here is by and large amazing. But yours takes the cake. So humbled. I’m just tired much of the time LOL. Let’s hope that won’t stop the flow this new year. Thank you for shouldering up your fellow bloggers onto higher ground.

  27. This rushed hurried world leaves so little time for reflection, but crossing that “mental threshold” at the dawn of a New Year is the one time where people do seem to look inwardly.
    This was very, very powerful. Thank you so much for sharing!
    ~Carl~

    1. And I am really thankful for the thoughtful feedback, Carl. You’ve been such a wonderful reader since walking along (jogging, that is =) ) on the holistic journey. I look fwd to my next revisit.

      Happy new year,
      Diana

  28. Your writing is absolutely fab!!

    For me NYE has never held much personal significance. But that’s just me. I understand how important it is for others.

    People yearn for the opportunity to reflect on what has passed and to hold hope for what the next year will bring. I think it is a chance for us to really try to right our wrongs.

    It’s just a shame that it only comes every 365 days. 🙂

    1. Ha ha ha “It’s just a shame that it only comes every 365 days.” Yeah, right? And here you are, blissfully willing to let it pass you right by. LOL. (But I’m glad you at least liked READING about it!)

      1. I think it brings about good intention in a lot of people. A chance to reflect and change if needed.

        For me, everyday is that opportunity.

        Why wait till Jan 1st?

      2. Wonderful. =) But it’s not about waiting for the 1st. We are creatures in and of the environment (that’s a whole book, on frequency and energy dynamics in/outside the earth and their impact on us) and cooperating with the universal timetable brings its benefits. =)

      3. I am aware of the alignment of the stars and planets on Jan 1st.

        I am also convinced that religion and spirituality embraces the stars and planets, much more than we think.

        At the same time as many scriptures were written, we studied the stars and used them to base the future of mankind within the scriptures.

        I cannot vouch for the truth of such predictions but I know that this was done by many religions east and west.

  29. sweet dreams for this year!

    1. Thanks, my friend. Same to you. Wishing you all that is dear and good in spirit, deed, and living.

  30. Good luck to everyone! Hope 2015 treats you well!

    1. Hear, hear. Thanks for being here. =) Happy new year.

  31. Happy New Year, Diana!

    1. Thanks. All my best to you and yours this year, N.

      Xxxxxxx
      D.

  32. This is the first post I read in this new year. Well said and beautifully written. A great start to my day and a new year.

    1. I don’t know why I feel special that this was your first 2015 post, JC. HA ha ha. Thanks for the lovely feedback. Totally cool we connected LAsT year.

      Onward and upward!
      D.

  33. To me the New Year has always been sort of like being handed a blank slate and a piece of chalk…and an invitation to just go for it! Happy 2015 everyone.

    1. You said it! A great summation of my post.

      *Raise the glass*

      Diana

  34. “hopes…like pieces of treasure in our palm” – a beautiful image Diana. I love any occasion that feels like a new beginning, but you’re right that this is a particularly special one because of the weight of all those communal hopes and dreams.

    1. The communal is what I increasingly realize I’ve been after on this blog, esp our hopes and dreams. Thx for the thoughtful input, Andrea.

      Onward and upward,
      D.

  35. I recall many end of the year proclamations that as the next year began, a few days into it, I would lose sense of my resolutions, have a scotch, smoke a joint and forget about all over again, until I built up enough resentment, I had plenty to discard the following year. Now, I honestly try to just make my next day a little better than the previous – being a bit more resolute with my actions with every waking hour. A bit more difficult to maintain, but no nearly as big a letdown when it doesn’t work out. 🙂

    1. I’m glad you brought this up, the human tendency to slip, lose resolve in routine and laziness. This is partly why I tend not to make ReSoLutions — and if you noticed, didn’t use the word in the post. And yet crossing this visible threshold of time does bring with it the anticipation of possibility and I think it wise and encouraging to seize the hope of a better self.

      (Love how you’re making yourself right at home here.)

      Xx
      Diana

      1. Well, thank you Diana, I appreciate your welcoming responses. My other site will be visting soon as well. 🙂

      2. Meaning….you will be visiting from your other site?

      3. I sent you an email to you that indicated I write with two sites. There is an explanation in the email. 🙂

      4. Only just now caught this explanation.

  36. Reblogged this on Journey to Self-Acceptance and commented:
    Inspirational none the less. As humans we grow no matter how well or less we’ve done over the year. As we believe and dream of tomorrow, especially of the New Year, let us also put actions with our words and move forward together. As the old saying goes, “Time waits for no one.”

  37. Your words, the photo…incredibly beautiful. Like something that should be bound in a leather journal tied with a grosgrain bow. Wisdom that reads like poetry….

    1. You make me sink into my seat all humbled and warm and fuzzy while wanting to smother you in a hug fit for mma fighters. LOL. Eh, I’ll just do the first. Too tired for the second. It’s only day 1. I have 364 chances to work out, rebuild muscle.

      1. That’s what this passage did to me. I can’t always pinpoint what I like in writing, but I always know when something makes me FEEL something.
        And, speaking of MMA…I’m back to boxing next week, too!

  38. Beautifully said, D. Particularly liked: “The Eve is a live wire between the past and future…” I like that we have a day out of the year to contemplate the past and dream of the future. Just think, we have 365 days to grow, and to make a difference. –Curt

    1. “we have 365 days to grow, and to make a difference.”

      The last 5 words = cLassiC Curt M.
      Thanks for signing this post as you have.

      D.

  39. happy new year, diana. i consider my birthday my official new year 😉 but Love waking up early on january 1, going for a long walk, and feeling gratitude for what i’ve learned and hope for what lies ahead. it’s been wonderful to get to know you this past year! much love <3 aleya

    1. Thanks for sharing the lines that give shape to your journey, Aleya. I’m excited for what lies ahead in your year. Your contagious passion to learn and relearn and rejoice will continue to bless many.

      Affections,
      D.

      1. thank you – i wish you all the best for 2015 and beyond.

  40. I love new beginnings! And I love your blog! Happy New Year, Diana.

    1. I admit I love hearing you love my blog, G.

      LOL (Let’s keep it real, shall we? Who wouldn’t?)

      Xxx
      D.

  41. Yes the New Year does feel like a time for second chances as well as looking at that hourglass to see if we let our dreams languish too long. It is a bittersweet time of year for reflecting on where we have been, where we would like to go, and how to get there.

    Another great post Diana!

    1. Thank you, Sharon. So glad to see you name your fears, wrestle them, marshaling resources and community to gain ground in the new year.

      You go, girl.

      =)
      D.

  42. Funny, isn’t it? It’s just like any other day, but we humans seem to have a need for certain marks in our lives. That’s a good thing I think.
    Happy new year Diana. All the best to you and your boys. And hey, we’re going on a short 5-day vacation to the beach in Porto Seguro, Bahia. You sure you guys don’t want to come and join us? Hubby could play his drums with the bahians here. hehehe
    🙂

    1. *Roar* I won’t pass on the invite. He’ll have us packed and on the plane before I can say Peter Piper picked a peck of….and I am so dang tired. =)

      Good point, Stace. You bring to mind the O.T., how the Israelites built altars in their sojourn. There’s a whole other aspect to that, namely that of worship, but the fact that they were marking time DOES play into it. Girl, you deserve some rest and sun. Your kids (and hardworking man) are gonna luv it. I know you’ll be coming up with post ideas out there LOL but try not to think too hard.

      My best wishes for a fulfilling year for you and yours. I know you’re gonna rock on your blog.

      D.

      1. Hahahahaha. Rest and sun. It’s stinking hot and sunny here a lot lately. However, being on the beach and ‘unplugged’ for a bit will be very nice. We just sold our house, will be packing up and moving south. Plus my mom’s coming in February for a month. She wants to go to Argentina and Chile with me. And of course you can’t come to Brazil and not visit Rio de Janeiro. Then there’s starting homeschooling with Caue. Phew! Yup, I think I better get a tiny vacay in to rest up before the storm.

        And I know you’re going to rock on your blog too. No doubt about it.

        🙂

      2. Wow. I need a vacation just thinking about all that’s in front of you. (AH! So THIS is how the male brain works…..!!) LOL!!!

        I’m about to disappear into the yr of schooling now. Two hrs ago, I said DRAT!! I thought we had another wk of break with the group. We pick up next wk already!

        Have fun for me, S.

        xoxoxo
        D.

      3. It’s so daunting. Soooooo daunting. Today I’ll start packing up. Argh!
        Oh no, already? May you receive all the strength and wisdom needed to get through to the end of the year Diana.
        I’ll definitely try to have fun and not think about the tasks ahead.
        Thanks a ton.
        🙂 <3

  43. “we turn our feet toward our dreams, reset our compass to the hope of this winter sun.” Love this. Happy New Year, Diana. I definitely feel like there is something magical about the turning of the year- everything before yesterday was then- behind the shut door of 2014 and now, new passage into the rest of our lives.

    1. Yes, I hadn’t thought how this particular threshold is a communal one we all are caught up in, until the writing. Calendars the world over, the alignment of the stars, everything declares a newness and while I was never keen on resolutions (bc their luster dulls with time), I think we cAn seize the fresh opportunity for meaningful changes, big or small.

      Here’s to another great yr for us, my friend.
      D.

  44. Great, Diana. Wonderful post on renewal.
    -Alan

    1. Thanks, Alan.

      All my best to you and yours,
      D.

  45. As ever, beautifully expressed.

    1. *smile*
      Love the “as ever”.
      Thanks, Julia.

      All the best,
      D.

  46. Beautiful, you say it so well “We hope for better, of our life and of our self, because to be human is to grow…” That is just a perfect answer to questions I think we all ask ourselves at such moments. Cheers!

  47. Well said. The coming of the new year forces all of us to have a time to reflect and assess. It is when all hopes are much more alive. All the best this 2015.

    1. Thanks. =)

      Onward and upward,
      HW

  48. The first week of January, when everything is possible, and no one has yet learned to spell failure. I like it.

  49. Thank you for stopping by my blog. You have an amazing writing style. Thank you for the great read!

    1. My pleasure. Thanks for taking a moment for the good word, Dustin. I sure appreciate the pledge of support. Welcome to A Holistic Journey. =)

      Diana

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